Wordless Wednesday

Two years ago June we discovered gluten free ice cream cones.

How many hours in a day?

It has been a particularly crazy several days. In fact I am writing this post when I should be working on others things, but have decided that if I want to write a blog than I'm darn well going to have to carve out time to do it.

For me, the most difficult part of being so busy and having so many roles is the challenge of staying present in any given moment. I once described my life as a perpetual conference with sessions going on at all hours of the day and night and all (or nearly all) of the sessions looked good. Every moment of every day I have to decide which session I am going to walk into. Will it be the student session? Lactation consultant? Working out? Parenting? Homeschooling? Home keeping? Graduate assistant? Wife? Friend? Eating? Sleeping? And what if I just want to hang out in the hall and either take some down time or chat with whoever might be available? Where can that fit in with all of this?

And the kicker is that non of the sessions are recorded or offered in a different time slot - though similar ones may be offered at future points, this is not guaranteed.

To the best of my ability I try to view abundance in time. This is helped when I am able to be deliberate about how I spend my time. Not that every moment has to be "productive" in the protestant work ethic type of way, but that if I am not doing something "productive" it is something that I have decided to be doing. When things come up that feel like they take that control away from - that is when I can really start to panic and feel overwhelmed.

I have not chosen to have every one of these sessions to be part of this conference all at the same time, but at least I am mostly enjoying them all. If I get the opportunity to set some aside for a respite I will take it (certain ones, that is). In the meantime, here I am, trying to figure out which room to go in to next.

Hayden wants to have six kids when he grows up. By himself. And he wants to be a dad - that's it, just Hayden and his six kids.

Apparently he has given up on his dream to be a half police officer/ half ice cream truck driver. He only choose the police officer because he wanted free sodas at QuickTrip. There is something to be said if kids win out over soda and ice cream, especially at six

Sometimes it's just nice to be...

There is a lot of critique these days regarding the over scheduling of childhood. While as a family as a whole we do participate in a lot of activities, we also make every attempt to prioritize downtime with friends (lots of sleep overs!), downtime with family, and simply time alone (sometimes this is easier said than done). Truth be told though, we are on the go a lot!

This is why I am truly enjoying the summer break from most of our organized activities. Sure we still meet with friends to go swimming once a week and another day is spent at the park. There are camps and vacations and a rather surprising number of birthday parties... But as I work on putting together our fall schedule I realize how much we are *not* doing. This is leaving long days to think and talk and read. The oldest three are truly enjoying the world of literature these days with the oldest two swapping novel suggestions on a regular basis. We've had some great discussions about all sorts of topics, often kicked off by the ever present NPR or a little periodical we've been reading called The Week. But as the back-to-school sales begin to pop up (our favorite time of year! Cheap supplies and it means the museums will not longer be packed full) we are looking toward our fall schedule.

I am making every effort to combine the days that we are out so that we can have full days at home. We find it easier to get into in-depth projects at home when we have entire days to devote to them instead of having to stop half-way through to rush off to something or try to begin after coming home from an already full day.

So this is what I have so far....

Monday

• The first and third Monday morning with be 4-H
• Hopefully the second Monday morning will be our Non-violent Communication Study group
• Monday afternoon/ evening will be the performing arts coop for the middle three (this is a new addition to the schedule, after leaving separate gymnastics/ ballet classes last year.)
• Monday evening the oldest will attend class at the local community college.

Tuesday home

Wednesday

• Wednesdays are reserved for our coop class days which have generally been running from 10-4. I'm not sure what the offerings are this year, but in the past have included
• Spanish
• Mythology
• Art
• Drama
• Odyssey of the Mind
• Photography
• Stop Motion Animation
• Various types of science
• Math Games
• Banned Book Club

Thursdays home (at least after we stop meeting for park day)

Friday

• Trying to decide if we will continue our First Lego League participation. Great group, but not sure if it is the right fit for us at this point. However, the second half of the year which is more of an open ended math/science club was absolutely wonderful so we may work through the kinks to get to that point. This runs from 9-3, but we cut out early for...
• Cool Kids Care. This is a group of pre-teens and teens that get together weekly for volunteer activities, team building, field trips, etc. The oldest three have been actively participating, so older "tags" sometime come along as well.
  
• If we are able, the older two want to get back into their Parkour class for the fall.
  

Whew.

Of course many of these activities have outside preparation, otherwise known as "homework". We'll need to figure out when we'll get up to see the math coach (unfortunately she's a bit of a drive). The older two are interested in doing more foreign language work, both preferring to work independently at home rather than with a group or tutor. And the oldest boy is interested in learning middle English in order to better understand Shakespeare (this is a new request, so we are just beginning to figure out how one would go about doing this -- seems to be this would be more a study of linguistics, but I'm open to suggestions!). Middle daughter has decided she wants to give spelling bees a shot and being the ultimate spelling-phobe this is also a new area for me.

And then we simply want to leave time for those experiences that may just fall in our laps. The random field trip or interest that is as yet unpredicted. The friendship or hobby that needs to be nurtured. But at least we know nothing is set in stone and it is up to us to be constantly aware if these are truly the choices we want to be making.

Sunday Evening

A number of the teens have developed a game based on the Harry Potter books and dubbed Quidditch. The games take about three hrs and are held in a park in the city, about 30 min from home. It wasn't worth making the round trip drive so I packed dinner and took Marley, Hayden and Rachael with me. A friend met us for the first two hours and then went home to dinner. We decided at that point to walk over to the pond and feed the ducks.

And one from the walk back to the car...

Fourth of July

It was a relaxing, fun day. Went to a friend's with a pool, watched several area fireworks displays from the back deck. Nice and cool too (well not as nice for the swimmers....)

Here are a couple of pictures from the afternoon.

Amber swimming with friends

Ian seeking revenge

Marley and Daddy

Marley coloring with the older girls

The Mountains

What good is a trip to Colorado without getting to spend some times in the mountains? You can't tell from the pictures, but this location was crowded! In fact, we were the last two cars that they let into the park until people started to leave.

Snow Day!